Redefining CO-PARENTING

It is time to redefine the term "co-parenting" from being cooperating in parenting and often understood as a post-divorce parenting arrangement in which both parents continue to jointly participate in their children's upbringing and activities, to the more meaningful term that stands for Collaborative Parenting.

Collaboration is much more than cooperation, although seen as a synonym by most, there are certainly some key differences.

Let's spread the new concept of co-parenting in our communities and help parents get the necessary support for a better future for the next generations.

Co-parenting stands for "Collaborative Parenting". Collaboration involves working together towards a shared objective, having a specific role in executing, owning responsibilities and rights, and making a team effort with the required commitment, resources, and skills to achieve a joint result.

Collaborative parenting is a holistic approach to parenting, which emphasizes communication, empathy, and cooperation between parents. It is a process of shared decision-making and mutual respect that ensures the children's well-being is the priority. This type of parenting not only benefits the children, but it also has positive effects on the entire family system. When parents work together to raise their children, they create a healthy and supportive environment for them to grow and thrive.

The positive effects of good collaborative parenting are numerous. It promotes emotional security, mental and physical health, cognitive development, and positive social behaviors in children. When children feel supported and secure, they are more likely to develop positive self-esteem, confidence, and resilience. They are also more likely to form healthy relationships with others and to reach their potential in life.

On the other hand, when parents do not know or apply the basic skills to raise healthy, resilient children, the consequences can be painful. Children may feel insecure, anxious, and stressed. They may have behavioral problems, academic difficulties, and struggle with forming healthy relationships with others. The family system can become strained, leading to conflicts, resentments, and emotional distress.

Many authors have written about the benefits of collaborative parenting. Dr. Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, in their book "The Whole-Brain Child," provide parents with practical strategies for promoting healthy brain development in their children through collaborative parenting. They emphasize the importance of communication, empathy, and understanding the child's needs and emotions. Their work highlights the importance of creating a positive and supportive environment for children to thrive.

In conclusion, it is time to redefine the term "co-parenting" to "Collaborative Parenting" to reflect the deeper meaning and benefits of parenting as a team effort. Collaborative parenting emphasizes communication, empathy, and cooperation between parents to ensure the children's well-being is the priority. Good collaborative parenting has positive effects on the entire family system and promotes healthy emotional, mental, and social development in children. Let's spread the new concept of collaborative parenting in our communities and help parents get the necessary support to change the world. Redefining co-parenting can be a challenge. How have you redefined your approach to co-parenting? Share your thoughts and experiences with us in the comments.